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Home is where…

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…our little boy romps around like it’s his domain.  I took this shot last night when Avery and I got home (can you tell it’s election day with the ‘VOTE’ card on our door?).  It was 4:30, freezing, and getting dark – so why in the world were we outside?  Well, as soon as I take Avery out of the car from our ride home from daycare, he start flipping out.  I mean full on screaming and flailing!  And it doesn’t help that I’m carrying my lunchbox, keys, and his school bag – juggling that and a flailing toddler is quite a mess.  I’m sure I get a couple glares from the passing cars and people on the street wondering what horrible thing I did to this poor kid…

But as soon as we get past our back gate, I let him go and he is in heaven.  He runs to the stoop and starts climbing the 3 steps to the back door.  Then when we get inside and I put up the gate to the back stairs where we came in, he freaks out again.  Throws a full on tantrum…screaming and flailing about so he falls on his but and sitting on the kitchen floor, continues to scream and ‘cry’(It’s like a preview into the terrible twos!).  I know the drill, so I use this time to drop my stuff, change from my work shoes to sneakers, and chase him around to put on his warm hat and mittens.  When I open the back door, the dramatics are gone and he is thrilled!  I plop him in the yard and he runs around; he tries to pick up a pumpkin, falls on his face in the grass and gets right back up, plays with the gate -opening and closing it, and tonight he finds Daddy’s new winter tires that were delivered during the day…

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Then he’s sick of the yard and HAS to go walk run on the sidewalk.  He refuses to hold my hand, so I have to hold his arm.  He slows down pretty quickly though – seeing a colorful leaf and rare yellow flower and plays with it.  Then we’re off to the front of the house – which I may add, is in dire need of some work!  We focused on the inside of the house this past year, so please excuse the chipping paint and overgrown shrubbery….

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But those things don’t matter to Avery-he knows this is home.  He is excited that I let him go and he climbs the steps to the front door, all by himself!  I’m right behind him tho – and good thing because the second time (of three, I may add) that he went up, he lost his balance and rolled backwards down a step!  I was right there to cushion his fall, so he was fine – and got right back up, got distracted by a big truck driving by, and then he was back to climbing the steps…

I love nights like this.  Even though it’s a mere 10-20 minutes outside (because thanks to daylight savings it’s dark by 5pm), it’s my favorite time of day.. Avery is so energetic, so curious, loves to explore, and I relish in the warmth I feel from watching him explore his home – even though it’s almost freezing outside… I’m so warm inside because this….this is home.

High Five for Friday

Hello Friday. It’s nice to see you again.  I’m not as exhausted as last Friday.  Maybe that’s because Halloween was a nice break in the middle of the week – and our work week didn’t start until Tuesday, thanks to Sandy.  Other than a day off, Sandy didn’t directly affect us, and we’re super thankful for having power, no flooding, no trees down, and everyone we love is safe.  To add to those good things, we’re linking up (for a 4th week in a row!) with Flavors of My Life and From My Grey Desk -  here are FIVE highlights from this week that we’re grateful for…

1. Vegas, Baby.
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Vinay and I booked our yearly getaway for 2013 – to Vegas!  After going to Costa Rica last year for a wedding, just the two of us (Avery stayed with Grammy & Grampy), we made a promise to ourselves – for our sanity and relationship, we’ll take a vacation together every year.  Well, Vinay had racked up some points thru his timeshare with his Mom and we used them to book a hotel for a week in Vegas this coming February.  We are super-excited because Vegas was our first vacation together as a couple (picture above from 2009).

2. E & M’s Biggest Loser Challege

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Erin and I went to our second Zumba Class last night (read about my first Zumba Class here).  We knew the first two dances- they were the easier ones and we had done them last week – but then she threw in some new ones that were wicked complicated!  Oh and the instructor came over to me 2-3 times to help me out – I know, pathetic!  But that isn’t stopping us!  We’re still committed to going once a week together to a class.  Plus we decided to make a Biggest Loser Challege for ourselves – we weighed ourselves this morning and I’m excited to kick her butt! It’ll be fun having a friend to get healthy and fit with… I did pretty well dropping the baby weight during my FIT in 40 Challenge last spring.  Now I wanna drop the post college weight that has slowly creeped on. 

3. Neighborhood Park & Playground

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I am so glad we bought a house VERY close to a park.  I try to take Avery every day after work (weather permitting).  We’ll miss this when the weather really takes a turn for winter… but for right now, we’re enjoying it while we can!

4. Halloween #2

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We took Avery Trick or Treating for his SECOND Halloween – This was our first holiday we celebrated with him last year, so it’s just amazing to see how much he’s grown and how different this Halloween was from last year.

5. Sweet Snacks
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We’ve been indulging in some yummy deserts this week – after Avery’s down, we curl up on the couch and watch a TV show together to wind down for the night.  We’ve both had a little bit of a sweet tooth this week and shared some sweet treats before bed…my favorite was Wednesday night – because we ate some of Avery’s Halloween candy and I stole the green gummy candy from Vinay and man was he mad! Hehe…

What’s your 5 this week?

Long Weekend (Thanks Sandy)

Well, I was going to write about our weekend, but thanks to hurricane Sandy, our weekend isn’t over yet!  In the four years I’ve worked at my office, they haven’t closed…  not for snow storms, or Irene last year… but this year, Sandy is headed our way and the city of Boston has closed EVERYTHING!  No work or daycare tomorrow for any of us… a day at home keeping safe inside weathering the storm!

Our weekend was a whirlwind of activities starting on Friday… got Avery a new pair of sneakers (because we lost one of his shoes!) on Friday and we played in the park in the afternoon because it was so gorgeous out.

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On Saturday, we went grocery shopping in the morning – just me and Avery.  Vinay joined us when we were checking out… only because I forgot my wallet.  Seriously!  I remembered the baby bag and Avery’s Bordom Cup of gold fish, but nope, totally forgot my wallet!  Mommy brain.  Then it was home to play outside in the sun… raked some leaves and put up the wind mill Avery’s Great Grandma got him for his birthday.

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Avery wandered around (I love having a fenced in yard!) while I raked leaves.  I’d look up to see where he was and he was hidden in the bushes for a while so I went to see what he was up to…

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Then it was off to the park again… I HAD to take advantage of the nice weather… soon it will be to cold to do this.  At the park, Avery found a friend and they played basketball together.

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After lunch, Avery passed out.

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While he was out, I switched the laundry (I did 3 loads this weekend), did the dishes, and ate lunch in peace… ahhh.  Then we were up and on the go again.  Went to Babies R Us to return the Bumbo Seat and tray (it was recalled).  Got a $57 store credit – cha-ching!  Then we returned a leaky humidifier and got a newer nicer one with a 20% discount and only paid $14 for a new one that was worth $50 more.  (My girl Ngoc would be proud we ‘say no to full price’)

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Back home, I put away Avery’s clothes that Grammy bought him recently at a Hatley sale (a bag of $1500 retail priced clothes for $70).  So while I put his clothes away, I packed away another box of small clothes – 12 month old sizes are too small now – We’re into 18-24 sizes already! And I organized Avery’s closet and dresser, which seem to look like a hurricane passed thru by the end of each week after grabbing clothes on the go every day.
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Then Avery helped fold some laundry…kinda.

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After Avery went down to bed, we curled up on the couch to watch a movie on TV.  We didn’t get thru the first half hour before we were both out.  I’m not complaining tho – cuz Avery slept thru, which meant I got a nice long sleep – although I did wake up at 1am (thanks, Erin) because my phone flashed from a text message.  But I was still able to sleep 6 hours more after that.

Breakfast with Avery and then I was off to work.  Yes, work on a Sunday.  I made up the last 6 hours I owed from when we took our last trip to California – I took 3 days off and just made up the time in the past 3 months here and there.

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When I got home, Avery was very clingy… he’s had a runny nose so he must not be feeling too well.  We played for a bit, then we went to work cleaning out a cupboard of Avery’s old bottles (Yes, old.  Avery had his last bottle on Friday night… and we aren’t looking back!) So when I cleaned out this cupboard…Avery was thrilled.  He climbed into the cupboard and kept going in and out…

We had a yummy family dinner and Avery went down really well – oh and he said ‘Baa’ to the sheep in one of our books tonight!  And if that wasn’t a good enough end to the night, I got a call that work is cancelled tomorrow… so we get another fun-filled day tomorrow with Avery!

How was your weekend?  Are you ready for Sandy?